How To Keep Your Man From Cheating

To understand how to keep your man from cheating, you have to have at least a basic understanding of what caused him to ask you out in the first place. There was something about you that intrigued or attracted him. It could have been the way you looked, the way you acted, some fascinating quirk in your personality, etc...

On top of that, you were on your best behavior. You got dressed up, dabbed on some perfume, and took extra time with your makeup. Now that you are in a relationship do you still do that or does he see you more often in your sweats with no makeup?

In the beginning you undoubtably paid attention to what he had to say. You paid attention to his needs. Do you still do that or are you more interested in getting in the last word or proving to him that you are right?

At the start of your relationship you probably complimented him and bragged about him to your friends. Do you still do that or is he more likely to come home to nagging and complaints?

And of course, in the beginning, you probably couldn't keep your hands off each other. Perhaps you were more adventurous? Were up for almost anything, as long as it made you both feel good. Are you still like that or do you have "Get Lucky Thursdays" set up in advance. Are you spontaneous or have you developed a "routine."

Why do men cheat? Because the adventure and excitement are gone or he feels unappreciated. Why would he want someone who nags him, doesn't listen to a word he says, and with whom he has to schedule play time? No, it is much easier to find someone new who will, at least for the first month, think the world of him.

If you want to keep your man around and keep your relationship exciting do the following:

1) Dress up like you used to and actually pay attention to keeping your body in shape.
2) Pay attention to his interests. Be genuinely interested in what he has to say.
3) Develop activities that you can do together that you are both interested in.
4) Get off your weekly "schedule" and actually make room for at least some play time every day. This could just be some fun groping on the couch or even a tickling session that turns into more.
5)You can share with your man but he doesn't need to know about every pimple, boil or bunion you have picked up since dating him.
6) Keep the bathroom door closed. There is such a thing as too much intimacy. Leave some mystery in your relationship for goodness' sake!
7) Schedule actual dates with him at least once a week. Even a simple dinner and a movie would be a great start.

By: seductiondiva

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