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Do You Want Trust Back In Your Relationship?

TRUST is hard to earn, but easy to lose. And without TRUST, relationships come apart quickly.

Trust is the belief that a partner has your best interest at heart. And it is impossible to have a healthy relationship without trust.

Trust is a two-way street. Trust involves telling the truth AND being open to hearing what a partner has to say. But, sometimes the truth can be difficult to tell OR hear. When this happens, trust gets damaged and must be repaired.

Relationships are important - without doubt, one of the most important things we have.

At the same time, relationships are difficult, full of problems, and hard to maintain. So, knowing how to rebuild trust is an important skill to master.

Why is it important to rebuild trust?

For starters, being able to repair trust is essential to keeping a close, healthy relationship. And close relationships provide many benefits.

Individuals in close, healthy relationships live longer and enjoy better health. This gain is undoubtedly due to the fact th…

How to Arouse Her Instantly

Smooth pick up lines may have worked in 80s movies but most women today are a bit more savvy. There are much more subtle and effective ways to turn women on.

Eye contact is one of them. Pay attention to what she is saying and keep your eyes above her bust line. Breast ogling is not a turn on, unless she has just had them done and is asking you about them.

Touching is another way to show her you are interested but it has to be the right kind of touching. Running your thumb in little circles over the top of her hand or her palm can be highly arousing. Grabbing her ass is not.

Touch her as if she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen.

Caress her with the love that most guys give to their favorite vintage car or most dreamed of stereo component. Run your hands gently over her curves.

Put your passion into the kiss. Slow and seductive. Deep and hungry. Your kiss can be the date maker or breaker. Savor the taste of her. Drink her up without leaving her face
all wet and drippy.

Women want …

Romance & Rose Petals: 10 Creative Ways to Use Them

By: Jewel Kinch

If you are looking to create a special ambiance, start the path to seduction or just bring a smile of delight to your sweetheart's face? One sure-fire way is with deliciously scented, silky rose petals. You can pick up rose petals from your local florist shop or order prepackaged petals online. The prepackaged ones usually come with some other sensual items, like tea light candles, which can add nicely to the ambiance.

Of course the rose petals should be lusciously scented. Most will be, but if they are not as pungent as you would like, pick up a rose scented mist from your local bath shop or pharmacy.

Make sure you purchase at least a few dozen so your rose petal surprise doesn't look skimpy. Of course, if you're making a trail down a hallway or up stairs, buy a few dozen more. Most of the time, eight or nine dozen will not cost more than ten or fifteen dollars – a very inexpensive, romantic treat.

Don't feel that you always have to go with red petals, som…

She Is Testing You – Retaliate Now

Women test men all the time. Even if none of men like this, we all know that we can't live without them. So, hating women or trying to live without them is not viable solution. The best thing we can do is to accept that they do and will test us.

''The test'' is that unexpected, unexplained, quirky situation inflicted on a man by a woman in a relationship. Women love to test men by throwing obscure theoretical questions, and especially to judge them. They usually like to test men, who are interested in, for whom they feel some attraction. They try to tell things about men by observing certain aspects of their behavior, or telling them things and judging them according on how they react.

Women test men because they need to quickly figure out what they're dealing with, and they can't expect a man to be straight up and honest about his strengths and weakness. Women are attention-seekers in constant need of reassurance and affirmation that someone cares for them …

What You Need To Know About How Guys Think

First, most guys only think about themselves, but they never really realize it. You have to think about what it is that you want out of him. Is this something that you have told him or hinted at? Guys aren't mind readers and they never pick up on the subtle hints. Guys think basic. They know what they want to do and how to do, but they won't do the things that you would unless you tell them.

There are plenty of things that guys think about, but most women feel that they think about their money, cars, and sex all day long. There are plenty of more things and they do happen to think about the relationship often. You will find that it isn't always about immature topics.

First, guys do think about the relationship and they think about things that you bring to their attention. Things like lies and being dishonest is just as much hated by guys as it is by women. When it comes to relationships, guys are very insecure. They are afraid that you are playing them and that this is all s…

Tips On Celebrating Your Dating Anniversaries Thoughtfully

Celebrating dating anniversaries is not about a lavish party or any kind of expensive event. It's primarily about letting your partner know that you remembered the date, which means that the relationship is special to you. Of course, not every anniversary is as special or has equal weight as others. Let's take a look at the special dating anniversaries that you should be celebrating.

The first is the three month dating anniversary. If you've been together for three months the bloom is not off the rose of romance, but celebrating the event tells your mate that you want to continue the relationship even though you've now started to see some of her or his faults and foibles. A nice meal in a special place is a great way to celebrate this dating anniversary. You might want to go to a comedy club or dinner theatre, or to some place romantic like a ballet or opera.

And, oh, by the way, don't celebrate the first or second month of your dating. That's the time when you&#…

What's More Important - Your Girlfriend Or Your Pride?

The internet is full of sage advice on “How to pick up women”. What to wear, how to dress, how to act, endless lists of dos and don’ts. So why does it fail us just when we need it the most? Why is it that we can’t keep our cool only when we’re around the woman we desire the most? It seems that the women we want the most are the ones we find it impossible to get. We like to tell ourselves that competition is stiff, but we all know at some level that there’s more to it than that – for most of us, there’s something wrong inside.

I’m not talking about psychological problems here. I’m talking about the normal struggles and insecurities that every man (and every woman) faces. And technique will not cure this one – a change in attitude is required, and that requires the courage to look deep inside and ask yourself some uncomfortable questions, like:

(1) Why do I have to have this particular woman?
(2) Why do I have to have any woman at all?
(3) What is it that I really want from women, anyway?


How To Look Sexy And Attract Her

Being sexy in front of a woman is a very important process in the seduction game. Women are attracted to guys who are sexy, and there are a few steps that you need to do so as to look sexy in front of them.

1. Be clean. Start with a good shower every morning, or a bath at night. Feeling and looking clean is crucial. Wash with nice-smelling body soap. You need to be soft and able to cuddle at all times. Practice good dental hygiene as well.

2. Have a nice haircut. Keep your hair neat, and have a good hair-dresser to maintain and cut your hair. Guys can look sexy in both short and long hair.

3. Get groomed. Work with what you've got. But keep it neat and tidy! Trim finger and toe nails weekly, remembering to clean under the nail. No fancy nail polish colors are needed, but a simple beige color can play down any nail discoloration.

4. Get in shape. Go to gym 3 times a week so as to maintain your body shape. Some light running will also help in keeping your body fit and presentable. Wome…

What You See In Women Determines Your Reality

Men are confused about dating and they're definitely confused about women. They make no logical OR illogical sense to even the best of men.

They see women dressing extremely sexy to attract men (supposedly) and then instantly reject all of the men that are interested in them for what they're obviously showcasing.

Yes, it's the most ironic thing in the world.

What men do see intimidates them in the women they want the most. What they see is the empowered independence of women and the extremely desirable social/sexual attributes of women.

Men don't know how to behave around women. Indeed, none of this is natural (especially the female social adaptation).

It's near impossible for American men to judge women on any other behavioral quality because they don't see any other evident behavioral quality.

They see the prickteasing, sexiness in front of them and they want it so desperately.

For the men's sake, the women aren't acting natural either, but whether they are …

How To Be Closer To Your Man Without Looking Needy!

We all want to be closer to our man. This is something that we may feel the need to do because it will make us feel better about our relationship. This is going to be a great achievement for most couples. However, it is not always easy to get close to your man because you may not want to look too needy to them. You have to know how to do it right so that you are not making a big mistake in your relationship.

1) Allow Your Man To Have Their Space

You need to allow your man to have their space but you want to also get as close to them as you can. When you are trying to learn about their life and find out as much as you can, you will want to be in their life but you also want to let them have their space so that they can do the things that they like to do too.

2) Sometimes, Your Man Needs To Do Something Alone

If a man says that they need to do something and they need to do it alone, you need to let them. This is the only way that you can be sure that they are doing what they need to and get…

How To Keep Your Man From Cheating

To understand how to keep your man from cheating, you have to have at least a basic understanding of what caused him to ask you out in the first place. There was something about you that intrigued or attracted him. It could have been the way you looked, the way you acted, some fascinating quirk in your personality, etc...

On top of that, you were on your best behavior. You got dressed up, dabbed on some perfume, and took extra time with your makeup. Now that you are in a relationship do you still do that or does he see you more often in your sweats with no makeup?

In the beginning you undoubtably paid attention to what he had to say. You paid attention to his needs. Do you still do that or are you more interested in getting in the last word or proving to him that you are right?

At the start of your relationship you probably complimented him and bragged about him to your friends. Do you still do that or is he more likely to come home to nagging and complaints?

And of course, in the beginni…

Flirting Signs Of A High Level Of Attraction

It's a fact that women use their physical presence to flirt with you during a conversation. By being able to pick up on these cues, you'll be more successful at building attraction and rapport.

That being said, you have to know when a woman is flirting.

So what exactly is flirting and why is it important for building attraction.

In a nutshell, flirting is woman's way of indicating that she's attracted to you and perhaps wants to know you in a more intimate manner. By being able to pick up on her flirting, you'll be able to progress your conversation and take it to the next level. (ie: get her number, set up a date or even go for a kiss).

Now that you know the importance of flirting, you should understand how a woman will try to use 'physical flirting' to attract your attention and build rapport. Here are three signs which she'll show which demonstrate a high level of attraction and flirting:

Flirt Sign #1- You see her leaning towards you

A major sign of flirt…

7 Ways to Make Yourself Irresistable

The key to being irresistable to men is more about you and less about them.It is about accentuating every one of your strengths both internally and externally and reveling in them. So before we show you how to flirt, tease and seduce, we are going to teach you how to pamper, indulge and revel in the delicious power of being a woman.1) Before going out to socialize or even see the one that you are currently dating, take a few minutes to visualize what you want to happen. Picture in detail exactly who you want and what you want to happen between you. What qualities will your perfect lover have?How will he look at you? How will he touch you? Add in as much detail as possible. Knowing what you want is the first step to having it.2) Before seeing the man you are dating or stepping foot outside the door, take care with your appearance. Look in the mirror and identify all the things that you like about yourself. If you focus on the qualities that you like about yourself, you wil…