Tuesday, April 24, 2007

How To Add Romance To Your Relationship

by: Maria Estarellas

After a few years of being with that special someone, everything becomes a routine and this is one of the reasons why a relationship fails.

In today's world, most of us involved in a relationship have a job, family, and other responsibilities that take up too much time of our lives and by the end of the day, we are so tired that don't make time to do something different and fun with our significant other.

In order for a relationship to work and last, we need to communicate, trust, support and do fun things with our loved one.

Here are some romantic ways to keep the flame alive.

  1. Get home before your partner and trace a path from the front door to the bedroom with votive candles. In the bedroom, have lit candles, a bottle of wine (or the drink of your choice), and strawberries covered with chocolate.

  2. Make a reservation for a night at a hotel but don't tell your partner. Just have her/him meet you at the hotel's bar for a drink. Make sure you have lit candles and rose petals spread on the bed when you get to your room.

  3. Put a romantic note in his shirt or pant's pocket or her purse and let her/him find it.

  4. Send and e-mail just to let her/him know you love her/him.

  5. When having dinner at a restaurant, go to the restroom, take off your underwear, put it in a little bag or box and give it to your partner when you return to the table. Make sure she/he sees it at that moment. Your partner will be so excited you probably won't finish your dinner.

  6. Leave a note on your partner's pillow letting her/him know how much you want or need her/him.

  7. Light up candles in the kitchen, have chocolate, strawberries, whipped cream and any other food you like. Blindfold your partner and feed her/him. Experiment eating off her/his body.

  8. When at a party, from time to time, whisper something sexy on your partner's ear. Do this when she/he is in front of other people. Watch her/his reaction.

There are indefinite ways to make your partner feel loved, wanted and interested in you.

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Wednesday, April 18, 2007

How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend

So you started a relationship with a cute, sweet girl who turned out to be an emotional wreck and possibly mentally insane. No problem, the hardest part is breaking up...err, actually it might be staying broke up, but first things first. Realize that any relationship you are in should improve both people's lives, and in this case focus on how your life currently is compared to how you would like it to be. If your life is not going the way you want it to, then follow these seven steps to break up with your girlfriend:

1. Take a break from each other - Tell your girlfriend you're taking some time alone (and give her a definite day when you will be done). Keep it to about a week or two at the most, since at this point in the relationship things are probably rocky and you don't want to draw out the pain too long. It is crucial that you not see her or speak to her at all (or as little as possible). The reason you want to be completely away from her is so that your mind and body can clear the emotions which are clouding your reasoning and judgment. She will probably fight with you about this saying that 'she really needs you right now', or try to put some other guilt trip on you, but you must be firm and stand your ground.

2. Make a decision - Once your head is cleared and you've taken a step back from your situation, figure out what is best for you. Decide who and what you believe and be brutally honest with what kind of person your girlfriend really is. Does she lie? Have you suspected her of cheating? Can you trust her? Are you counting on her to change even though she has given you signs that she doesn't want to? Do you see a future with this woman and even the possibility that she could be the mother of your kids? Are you counting on the future to be different than what it is now (even though it will most likely be more of the same). Do you have ulterior motives for keeping this relationship alive (such as satisfying your family or friends, you don't think you will be able to find anyone else, etc)? Ask yourself, how would a real man act in this situation? Don't stay in a relationship just because you have 'history', it may be bad history and you want to end that as soon as possible.

3. Make a plan - If you've decided to end it, then you must figure out the implications when you break the news. Does she have possession of anything of yours that is valuable such as expensive electronics, memorabilia etc? Are the both of you in any joint contracts or ownership agreements such as real estate loans, car payments, credit cards, etc? Figure out a way that you can get out of any agreements and get your stuff back safely in case she flips out and goes on a rampage (such as having a mutual friend get your stuff while she is gone, etc).

4. Tell her your decision - Communicate to her in person exactly how you feel and what you've decided. Remember, the decision is over so do not ask, beg, or plead but tell her in a mature manner that is not spiteful, immature, or childish. Be prepared for threats against you or herself. Do not cave under the pressure; she will probably try to get you to reconsider any way possible. Expect tears. If she is seriously suicidal (and not just trying to manipulate you), then you should arrange for her friends to be nearby when you break the news and possibly some medical help as well.

5. Hold your ground - Forever. Do not doubt yourself or be swayed, the decision is final. Realize that people can change, but the chances are very small and any changes she may make in the future are most likely just surface changes not personal transformation.

6. Avoid her completely - Do not email, speak, or see her until you are comfortable with the idea of her having sex with someone else, then you can talk to her again (but with extreme caution and very limited). Remember, after you break up, it is crucial for your emotional connections to be severed completely so you can be truly free from her (this can take months or sometimes even years).

7. Be a man about it - If you decide to be ‘friends’ with her, be cordial and mature about it. Don't bring up old issues but treat her as a new guy friend. Don't be needy or go out of your way to help her, and especially don’t fall into mind games. If she tries to make you jealous, hit on you, or bring up old issues, stop her immediately and remind her you are only friends and if she keeps it up you are outta there!

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Friday, April 13, 2007

How To Act On A First Date - Advice For Men

There are tons of free dating sites and free advice from people who offer first date tips and online dating information, but very few that address the issue of how to act on a first date.

Contrary to what you may have read on this topic, you must educate yourself from reputable experts in this field who can document their success.

Women Are More Intuitive Than Men

They can tell from their female intuition whether or not you're not in control of your emotions, if you're nervous, or you're not comfortable in your own skin. When you're on a first date, she's probably nervous too because she feels your emotions. I call it "woman radar" and its unavoidable.

Be Fun, And Allow Yourself To Have No Expectations On Your First Date

Women want a man who can lead, be calm and make her laugh. If you can act this natural without being needy and "leaning in" too much, both of you will feel at ease with each other and enjoy the first date better.

Wing The Experience, but set a time limit for yourself

Go to a coffee shop, go shopping in a local mall. This will allow both of you to escape and flee if the chemistry isn't there. Be positive. Flirt. End the date unexpectedly but in a friendly way. In other words, don't allow the first date to continue more than an hour and a half. Why?

This first date tip will set the tone for you, and she will see a man who is busy, you have things to do. Just make sure that you do this in a friendly way, smile, and tell HER to call YOU! You'll leave her wanting more.

Avoid The Boring Topics, Places And Conversations and never complain.

Dinner and a movie? No. I tell all my clients never to make a date like that until after the 4th date as a nonnegotiable dating rule. Why? Ever tried talking during a movie or getting to know someone when you can't hear them talk?

Find somewhere unique and in a public setting. If you think she's the type to appreciate expensive dinners and fancy restaurants, take her to the mall food court. Seriously. This is probably the last place that she would expect you to take her, because if she's a woman of exceptional beauty, you're probably the only man who didn't give into her demands! She'll welcome the change, and will appreciate your confidence. Get it?

Keep Your Manners, Be Cool And Lean Back

Lastly as one of the most prickles first date tips you'll ever hear- lean back. Whatever happens- happens. If you ever observe other men, they are leaning towards the women. This is great to do after you have spent more than an hour getting to know her, but leaning in to early or to often will telegraph to much interest, and it will make her feel uncomfortable.

If you practice these tips to mentally improve yourself, you will find this changes lots of your choices, and your dates will go a lot smoother and the whole dating experience will be more enjoyable for the both of you.

By: Grant Freeman

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Wednesday, April 11, 2007

How To Flirt With Women In 7 Easy Ways

A lot of guys have been asking me what we men should do for body language, so this column will give you the answers: how to recognize female body language, how to react to it, and how to use your own body language to flirt with women successfully, from start to finish.

You have to remember that whatever you say, however you gesture your hands, arms, head, and eyes, women are NOT taking your movements at face value. If she jokes with you and you lightly push her away as if to say "Stop", she’s taking that simple gesture as something more: interest, dis-interest, enjoyment, annoyance–any of a million different signals. She’s reading it for further suggestions as to what kind of guy you are, and what your interest in her is. Know that with body language, girls are always reading the way you move and act!

Here are my "Lucky Seven" best ways to show interest:

  • The confident eye gaze
  • The "Dale Head Drop"
  • Smile!
  • Open body language
  • Lean in to her
  • Thumbs in belt
  • Touch her

Let’s look at each in more detail:

1. The confident eye gaze

This is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl’s eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her look down and smile, you know you’ve made it and the time to approach is now. If she looks away from you but doesn’t smile, give her a shot nonetheless; just the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest.

2. The Dale Head Drop

So named after the guy who mastered the art of getting women rushing to his side, just with a simple shrug! If you really want to blow away a girl–and show some balls–meet a girl’s eyes, then knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to say, "Hey, you know you want me. Come over here and get me!" I’ve found this to work incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit more–but it still works!

3. Smile!

It’s often overlooked, but nothing communicates happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in one like a nice big smile. Show the girl you’re in control, show her you’re confident, show her you’re a fun guy to be around: brighten the place up with a big smile! And if your teeth need work, then get them fixed! It’s good not just for your chances of meeting a girl, but also for your health and appearance!

4. Open Body Language

So many guys walk or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together, and their faces anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into your world: Have your arms open and leaned back, your legs open and relaxed, your face warm and inviting. You’ll not only attract yourself into a girl’s world, but also into the world of people at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a future girlfriend–or even wife!

5. Lean in to her

As you’re talking to a girl, especially while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning in closer. You don’t want to be a creep, of course, but you can generally tell by a girl’s body language and talk how interested she is in you. If things are looking good, show her your control of the situation–and interest in her–by leaning in and generally getting closer to her. Leaning back does the opposite; it shows you’re unconfident and not overly interested. Not what you want to communicate.

6. Thumbs in belt

Ever put your thumbs in your belt, with your hands at your hips’ side? This is processed as a sign of being confident in one’s sexuality and size. So if you’re standing around at a bar or club and want to convey confidence, this will certainly be understood by girls!

7. Touch her!

Yup, nothing gets you closer to a girl than physical touch. Great conversations and emotional/spiritual chemistry are great, but if you really want to take it to the next level, you’ll have to eventually show some balls and touch her. I’m not talking about grabbing her and making out (unless it really is going that well and she’s flirting out of control!), but doing little things: brushing your arm by her shoulders, lightly massaging her, leading her by the arm to another location in the place. By making a physical connection, you’re giving her a sign loud and clear that you’re confident in yourself and interested in her.

By: James Brito, Relationship Expert

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Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Want to Learn the Secret Technique to Seduce Girls?

Allow me to tell you a truth about guys and what most of us want from women...

Simply put, we want to get laid!

When we start talking to a girl or bring her out on a date, our ultimate goal is to get her in the sack. While you might want a relationship or simple companionship, your first thought is wondering what sex will be like with her.

That's why knowing how to seduce girls is an important thing to know.

The one problem you might encounter is how difficult it can be to transition from a date to "getting it on" with a woman. I don't have to tell you that it's frustrating to want a woman, but have no clue how you can make a move on her.

But let me tell you secret...

When women want sex as much as we do! So when she has sex with you, there is no seduction. It's a conscious decision on her part.

On other hand, she doesn't want to make the first move. In fact, women want to be pursued and made to feel desired. Ultimately this means you have to have the courage to confidently make the first move.

If she's into you, then there'll be no resistance.

Now I know you might be a little nervous about making a move, but there is a simple technique for progressing from a date to having sex. From the moment you meet her, you should look for opportunities to make "a transition".

A transition is basically a moment when you can elevate your interaction with a woman. An example of a transition is when you're talking to a girl you make things more physical by kissing her.

In one of his resources, seduction guru David DeAngelo talks about the importance of how to transition from one stage to another. What he discusses is how there are key points in when you're with a woman that provide an opportunity to progress to the next step.

David's technique emphasizes the importance on knowing what your next move will be. What you want to do is plan out your actions from the moment you approach a woman to the moment you're having sex with her. If you know how to navigate through this process, you'll find it's easy to seduce girls.

So what you want to do is to write down all the times when you might encounter a potential stopping point where a specific action is needed. These moment could include getting a girls number, asking her for a date, touching her, going for a kiss and then seducing her.

What you want to do is write down that action you'll take to make that transition. Then put it to memory. By having a plan of action for advancing to the next step, you'll be able to make these transitions with confidence and ease.

Knowing how to seduce girls is a skill that can be learned. If you study these transition techniques and make to point to learn them cold, you'll discover it's easy to have sex with girls you meet.

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Thursday, April 5, 2007

3 Secret Tips to Really Attract A Woman

So, you want to really attract a woman! But do you know how?

Perhaps the first thing you ought to know is what doesn't work- lame pickup lines. You know the kind. "Baby, you must be a broom, 'cause you just swept me off my feet" and "You're hot. You must be the reason for global warming." Lines like these may work in comedy but, in real life, they are duds.

To really attract a woman, the first thing you should do is be yourself – be genuine. Any falseness is going to be a major turn-off.

There are many ways to really attract a woman and using astrology is one way. Here are 3 secret tips to applying astrology to attract the woman of your choice.

Secret Tip # 1 – Learn the sign of the woman you are attracted to.

Don't use the corny "what your sign" line. That won't get you very far except, maybe, out the door. Now, this will take a bit of homework. Learn some of the main characteristics of each of the signs of the zodiac.

Since you don't yet know her sign, you will need to know something about all of them. Each sign has certain characteristics that are peculiar to it, such as body language, colors, scents, etc. While it does take some study, if you want to really attract a woman, it will be worth it.

Using what you have learned about the signs, you can pick up clues that you can use to open a conversation. For example, if she is wearing a certain color, you can relate that color to a sign of the zodiac and a particular character trait, like red could characterize the strength of Aries. Once the subject has been opened in this way, she will very likely tell you her sign. And you didn't even have to ask for it.

Secret Tip #2 – Focus on her.

Once you know her zodiac sign, talk about the characteristics of that sign, focusing on the positive ones. Mention which ones you've noticed in her that you find attractive. Be genuine about it and focus on her, not yourself. Talking about yourself will come later. For now, you should be focused on her and listening to her. By listening, you will learn what there might be about you that will be attractive to her.

Secret Tip #3 - Compare complimentary characteristics.

Now it is your turn to talk about yourself. But don't overwhelm her with bragging about your accomplishments or character traits. Instead, keep it limited to those character traits that compliment some of the most positive characteristics of her zodiac sign. Don't exaggerate them. If anything, understate them a little. You don't want to sound like a braggart. And she will be most attracted to some one who isn't boastful.

These tips may not seem like such big secrets, but many men just don't seem to know them. Or they ignore them. If you really want to attract a woman, follow these tips. Who knows where it will lead!

Author Info:

Andrew Osterman is a normal guy who discovered the secrets of astrology to attract any woman he wanted. Straight from the source… http://www.astrology-seduction-secrets.com/

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Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Art Of Seduction, Seducing Women

Written By: Cher Sern Lim

The Art Of Seduction And Seducing Women Into Wanting To Have Sex Is Very Easy As Long As You Have The Right Techniques And You Know What You’re Doing.

When all is said and done about dating women there is one main goal in a man’s mind. How do I get laid? Getting women to go out with you is one thing, seducing women into your bed is a different story altogether. But as with flirting and dating it can be done if you know how the art of seduction works.

In a sense seduction is about making a connection with the woman that you are trying to seduce. Get her attention and make her want more from you. When you are flirting or bantering with her start moving the topics along into the sexual territory. Get her aroused and interested subconsciously so that when you make your move she will be naturally willing to go with you.

Another seduction technique you can try out is to just flat out arouse her and make her horny for sex. The reasoning behind this is simple, when women are aroused they will most likely want to have sex with whoever is making her horny and that would be you! Now one of the ways of seducing women into wanting to have sex is to actually talk about it. Getting her to just talk about it is sometimes not enough, you have to somehow convince her to visualize it. You can try to do so by discussing fantasy stories about what she’d like to do or what kind of fantasies she’d like to act out.

The art of seduction also includes turning the most innocent of discussions into something with sexual undertones. Seducing women is all about getting them to think about having sex and that way, she’ll have thoughts about wanting to have sex with you! And sometimes, being subtle is the best way to go about doing this. Instead about talking about sex openly and possibly disgusting her you can try to talk about other topics at hand while inserting suggestive words like “hard” or “coming” or “penetrate”.

And sometimes the best seduction techniques are also the most obvious. Try talking about how great sex can be when you have two people getting together for a purely sexual experience with no strings attached. Get her thinking about how people should be able to share and live out their sexual fantasies without being judged and you might seduce her into thinking that its her great idea of having sex with you!

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