There are tons of free dating sites and free advice from people who offer first date tips and online dating information, but very few that address the issue of how to act on a first date.
Contrary to what you may have read on this topic, you must educate yourself from reputable experts in this field who can document their success.
Women Are More Intuitive Than Men
They can tell from their female intuition whether or not you're not in control of your emotions, if you're nervous, or you're not comfortable in your own skin. When you're on a first date, she's probably nervous too because she feels your emotions. I call it "woman radar" and its unavoidable.
Be Fun, And Allow Yourself To Have No Expectations On Your First Date
Women want a man who can lead, be calm and make her laugh. If you can act this natural without being needy and "leaning in" too much, both of you will feel at ease with each other and enjoy the first date better.
Wing The Experience, but set a time limit for yourself
Go to a coffee shop, go shopping in a local mall. This will allow both of you to escape and flee if the chemistry isn't there. Be positive. Flirt. End the date unexpectedly but in a friendly way. In other words, don't allow the first date to continue more than an hour and a half. Why?
This first date tip will set the tone for you, and she will see a man who is busy, you have things to do. Just make sure that you do this in a friendly way, smile, and tell HER to call YOU! You'll leave her wanting more.
Avoid The Boring Topics, Places And Conversations and never complain.
Dinner and a movie? No. I tell all my clients never to make a date like that until after the 4th date as a nonnegotiable dating rule. Why? Ever tried talking during a movie or getting to know someone when you can't hear them talk?
Find somewhere unique and in a public setting. If you think she's the type to appreciate expensive dinners and fancy restaurants, take her to the mall food court. Seriously. This is probably the last place that she would expect you to take her, because if she's a woman of exceptional beauty, you're probably the only man who didn't give into her demands! She'll welcome the change, and will appreciate your confidence. Get it?
Keep Your Manners, Be Cool And Lean Back
Lastly as one of the most prickles first date tips you'll ever hear- lean back. Whatever happens- happens. If you ever observe other men, they are leaning towards the women. This is great to do after you have spent more than an hour getting to know her, but leaning in to early or to often will telegraph to much interest, and it will make her feel uncomfortable.
If you practice these tips to mentally improve yourself, you will find this changes lots of your choices, and your dates will go a lot smoother and the whole dating experience will be more enjoyable for the both of you.
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