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Seduction Techniques Alone Will Not Help You Attract Women

There is an endless amount of "seduction techniques" being sold on the internet that either teach or show men how to attract and/or succeed with women.

While some of these techniques will not work for men as well as others might.

The truth is they all will work at attracting women if (and this is a really big if) the man has no other belief system in place as well as achieving more success with the new system than he did with his old way; relatively quickly.

However, what usually happens is the man reads or listens to whatever "seduction system" he has been sold and forms a very strong opinion that this new belief is indeed a better way to succeed with women.

So this will solve his problem and now he can be successful with and attract women, right?

Wrong! Wrong! Wrong!

Now, when he goes out he has two forces battle each other; on the weak side (conscious) he has his willpower and the opinion he has about how successful he thinks his new "seduction system" will …

How To Seduce A Man

By: Amy Waterman

The great seductresses of history and legend – Cleopatra, Eve, the Sirens – were able to tempt men to abandon honor, virtue, wife and even life itself to satisfy their desire. Although a seductress’s great beauty was certainly a factor in winning men over to her charms, more often it was her cunning knowledge of human psychology.

Seduction is a specialized form of persuasion that uses a man’s weaknesses (such as his pride, sexual desire, or susceptibility to flattery) to convince him to do something which he would otherwise not do. A woman in love with a married man needs all the arts of seduction to convince him to break his marriage vows. A woman who wants to steal a man away from his current partner needs great skill in these arts as well.

If you wish to seduce a man, you will be faced with the challenge of convincing him to do something that may be against his principles. At the same time, you will be aided by the simplicity of your request. You are not asking that h…

Don't Ignore The Signs: How Emotional Infidelity Can Ruin Your Relationship

Emotional infidelity can start with a simple hi or a wink. It begins in a boardroom or a chatroom.
One spouse says, "What's the problem? We're only friends."

The other spouse can't believe the reassurances. So the jealousy builds and a wedge is driven between partners. Sometimes nothing really is going on, and sometimes an affair is in progress. It's only a matter of time.

So how can you tell if your spouse is a potential cheater? How can you stop a relationship from becoming romantic outside of your marriage? Here are five topics to think about before determining if your marriage is in the danger zone.

1. Secrecy: Do you feel as though your partner could be telling you more about his or her new friend? Or do you hide the details of your platonic relationship from your spouse? If so, why? It's best not to keep secrets from your partner, even if you think he or she will be hurt, angry or jealous. If you want a successful relationship, trust and honesty is the …

Four Hot Signs Of Attraction

In today’s society, beauty, physical attraction, and sexuality are all commonly misunderstood as some transcendent inevitable fact; falsely interlocking the three makes it seem doubly true that in order to initiate attraction between a man and a woman, both sexes should be beautiful to be sexual.

That of course is not true at all. The definitions of beautiful, attraction, and sexual constantly change to serve the social order, and the connection between the three ideas is a recent invention.

Some psychologists contend that the disparity among the concepts of beauty, attractions, and sexuality is based on the premise that both sexes are inclined to physical or sexual attraction because women are able to view men just as men view women, as subjects for sexual and aesthetic evaluation.

In a survey conducted by an “evolutionary psychologist,” from 10,000 individuals who were interviewed, it was found out that men have high-regards to physical attraction in their budding sexual mates, while w…

How To Talk To A Man - Five Secrets Every Woman Should Know

Do you know how to talk to your man? Is your boyfriend the silent type, not telling you what he thinks or feels? When you ask him questions and try to get him to open up, does he seem to go farther away? Is he confused about what you want from him?

Talking to men can be difficult if you don't understand how they are wired. Even if your guy is the talkative type, he still may not be good at sharing thoughts, feelings, or sentiments that are of any depth. Would you like to know the five secrets in how to talk to a man? Here are some facts that may surprise you and guide you:

1. You cannot talk to men the way you talk to other women.

Women are almost always ready to share. If you woke your girlfriend up at three in the morning to tell her the details of your fight with your boyfriend, she could tune into what you are saying in about five seconds. Conversely, if you woke your boyfriend up to tell him anything important, it would be the equivalent of a bee sting. He would be jolted, disor…

Flirting With A Stranger

Flirting can be great fun, but when it comes to doing it with a stranger it can be a daunting task. You face the risk of rejection, embarrassment or sometimes creepiness. It isn't that bad however. Read on to find out what you can do for bridging the gap between you and the stranger.

Laughter is the best medicine

Positive emotions always work and there cannot be anything better than laughter. Positivity helps you keep them engaged to what you are saying and doing. Also try to be funny and crack jokes. Your sense of humour could be the best way to get a positive reaction from the person whom you are flirting with.

Talk about something common

Find something common that you could talk about. Did you just bear witness to a weirdly dressed overweight woman, who slipped on the pavement? You both had a good laugh, now may be you could talk about it. Try to bring up issues about current topics and find out the person's views on this.

Don't hit on other people

Do not hit on other people …

Why Is Love Important In Life?

Love is universal. It is a symbol of connection and energy. It is everywhere and it reveals what’s in a person’s heart.

The world is undergoing massive upheaval and social change. There are experts who tell you that global warming will destroy natural habitats, and that land mass will decrease with rising tides. Conflict is in the headlines every day and our leaders take us in directions that feel dangerous and unsettling.

Now more than any other time, you have the opportunity to change the world around you in the way people live and coexist.

Does that sound possible? Just one person out of the billions on this planet has the capacity to effect such change?

It is absolutely possible. With love in your heart, anything is possible. You have the potential to affect entire communities, change people's lives, bring people together.

It just takes one person.

When you open your heart and live from your heart, you honour others with the respect that comes from acknowledging their right to be. Y…

How To Survive When Relationship Breaks Down?

Relationship is a beautiful feeling and a wonderful experience. One tends the relationship as one cares for a tender plant. One gives ones whole being to the relationship. The breakdown therefore becomes unbearable. How to survive relationship breakdown?

1. Stop Thinking About why?

Most of the people who suffer with breakdown of relationship keep thinking about the reasons. They analyze again and again. Their mind keeps thinking of the reasons the relationship broke down. They speak to their family and friends and seek their opinion. Sometimes they find that their partner was guilty and other times they blame themselves. This is an unending process. There is no use analyzing the reasons. At least do not do that immediately after the breakdown. You can peacefully do that after about a year to make an unemotional analysis.

2. Do things differently-

I have observed that all of us have habit of doing our daily chores in the same way everyday. Watch when you step out of your home. Which leg do…

Active Listening Skills for Good Relationships

Too often the focus on healthy relationship communication exists in what each person says. The idea that one-way messages are at the heart of good relationship communication is what destroys relationships. Active listening skills are a must-have technique to anyone interested in building good relationships. There are a variety of active listening skills you can use, but the ones I will be discussing today are questions, using body language, and summarizing.

The first active listening skill you can begin using right away in building good relationships is questioning. Asking questions by firing them away like an interrogator pounding his suspicious criminal is as effective as one-way communication. Questioning in active listening skills is more about the quality of the question. You are not an interrogator in your relationship so do not act like one.

If there is something you do not understand, then ask your partner to rephrase, restate, or repeat the statement. Active questioning skills …

Attraction - Use The Power Of Thought To Get Wat You Want!

What is attraction? What is the power of thought, and what does it have to do with attraction. These are wonderful questions that relate to creation of the universe down to your smallest needs and necessities.

Attraction. This is both a physical and metaphysical law of bringing one object to another. More specifically attraction is described as a force exerted on oppositely oriented objects, tending to draw or hold those objects together.

This can work for math, or physics, but also your daily lives.

Thought. What is a Thought?

If someone would categorize a thought by its qualities, they could say it is certainly intelligent, it has no mass or fills no space, and it is full of energy.

This is what the quantum physicists believe it is, and they also believe (and now prove) that our universe is filled with intelligent, non-stuff (no matter or mass)…with energy, or basically, our entire universe is nothing more than thought.

The Power of Thought

A random thought, some musing or daydream, perhap…

Using Humour As Your Secret Weapon

by: Steve Armstrong

You’ve approached the object of your desires. You’ve got a first date. How do you carry it off and make sure she’s “hooked” on you?

I’ll let you in on the Master Seducer’s secret – humour.

If you can make a girl laugh and giggle, then most of the hard work of seduction is done. Why? Because laughing makes people happy – it releases endorphins in the brain which make us feel good. And we like being around people who make us feel good (makes sense, doesn’t it).

It is also the best form of relaxation – laughing is known to lower the heart rate. And if a girl feels happy and relaxed in your presence on a first date, then your 90% there.

It’s natural on a first date for the barriers to be up – she will be mentally screening you, checking you out. It can make for a very nervy encounter on both sides. But with the use of humour, you make her smile, make her laugh and she becomes relaxed and open. And that should be your goal for a first date.

So how should you use humour?

Well, …

Trapped by seduction?

By: Stan Lewis

Ever get a mouse in your home. They are big time pest. When you go to the store to pick out a trap to catch them, you will find all different types. No matter which one you choose, they all have the same premise. First, traps tempt the mouse into moving the focus of the mouse thoughts, from where it was going, towards the trap. And second, to give the hunter a place to make the trap so appeasing. Just add a nice chunk of cheese or bait in the right spot to seduce the mouse to enter the trap.

We humans are pretty high up on the food chain, but there is and has always been one enemy that has sought to destroy and devour us – Satan. If the devil can get you off of the path of God’s will at your workplace he will. Satan will lure you in, much like we do a mouse and he is very good at it.

First he will try to take your focus off of where you are going and change it to another focus. The forms of seduction are so subtle that you may never notice. You may have friends or acquaint…