Date Ideas..

Now that a sorry geek such as you has finally landed the girl of your dreams and everyone else’s dreams, let’s get to the hard part. The part where you keep the girl interested in you. This can also be described as the part where you end up selling your family fortunes and end up penniless, but that doesn’t matter as long as you’ve managed to keep your girl right.

Now let us analyze the concept of a date. The origins of the word ‘Date’ lie in ancient Arabia, where the summers, the springs, the girls and the winters are always hot. The age old tradition of Arabia decreed that males seen going out with females had to be violently punished. Hence hanging out inside the city was a little impossible, unless the wife was ok to the idea of a thing-less husband. So what the hormone heavy kids did was, they used to go out in the desert and hang out under the shade of the date palms. The word stuck and hence we go ‘dating’ nowadays.

Now, your date location is highly dependent on what sort of a person you are. There’s a concept in France where a huge barrel is filled with grapes and people get to stomp on them and laugh and screech and pretend to have lots of fun while doing it. If you’re a extremely insecure person, I would not advise you to use this tactic because you don’t want to see a hunk ‘fall’ on your wife/girlfriend, thrash about in the grape slush and have lots of fun while you run away crying. So for all of you insecure guys out there, please avoid such ‘contact sports’-dates, or get an insecure girl who’d rather cling on to you than be clung onto. You might also want to check out the dating avenues offered by a gay bar. You’d be able to completely eliminate ‘guys hitting on your girl’ from the equation then, giving you ‘quality’ time to spend with your girl.

Now for married couples, there is an extremely radical and absolutely ‘win-win’ date concept you might want to explore. A date with a married couple. That way, you could gain valuable information about the joys of being married (if you get what I mean) and add to the pleasures of your married life. Worst case scenario, your wife could end up falling for the other husband, but don’t worry. You shouldn’t miss the trick here. You can always hit on the other wife if that happens.

Now for the hard core romantics, I suggest falling back on history for inspiration. Way back in history. I suggest going to an apple orchard and picking apples together. If you think that this idea sucks, I’d suggest you remind yourself what happened after Eve ate The Apple. Doesn’t suck so much now does it?

Or if you’re the rather conservative lover, you can check out the usual love spots in your locality and keep your chick entertained. Now don’t ask me how to keep your chick entertained because that’s your job. If I did that, she’d be my girl, not yours.

If nothing works out and your girl’s getting losing interest, I recommend falling back on the ‘date-under-the-date-palms’ thing. A date palm’s never disappointed anyone on a date. So far.

By: Myers

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5 Common Mistakes Men Make In Dating

When approaching women, men will need to bear some points in mind so as not to make the same mistakes like other guys make. Here are the top 5 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:

1. Approaching without a plan. If you never plan, you are planning to fail. Although you can always improvise on the spot, but by having a plan, it will always increase your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.

2. Lie to women. When a man does not give enough respect and credit to a woman, he is going to fail. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you are trying to pick them up, so do not beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want.

3. Forgetting about her comfort zone. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and therefore it is extremely important for you to come across as a harmless guy. Being a little humorous always help.

4. Acting like a pervert. Do not just stare at her boobs when you just got to meet a woman, it will only bring across to her that you are a pervert. Instead, lock your eyes into hers while talking to her, it shows that you respect her and are interested to know her more.

5. Do not act like an irresponsible man. In reality, men are very bad to women. There is always a heavy price to pay for breaking a heart. When you are faithful to a woman, you will reap the rewards in the long run.

Hope that you do not make these common mistakes that most men make.

By: Crid Lee

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What You See In Women Determines Your Reality

Men are confused about dating and they're definitely confused about women. They make no logical OR illogical sense to even the best of men.

They see women dressing extremely sexy to attract men (supposedly) and then instantly reject all of the men that are interested in them for what they're obviously showcasing.

Yes, it's the most ironic thing in the world.

What men do see intimidates them in the women they want the most. What they see is the empowered independence of women and the extremely desirable social/sexual attributes of women.

Men don't know how to behave around women. Indeed, none of this is natural (especially the female social adaptation).

It's near impossible for American men to judge women on any other behavioral quality because they don't see any other evident behavioral quality.

They see the prickteasing, sexiness in front of them and they want it so desperately.

For the men's sake, the women aren't acting natural either, but whether they are or not, it is still up to the man to know what her true sexuality is to see beyond her social 'front' or persona.

He has to know that each woman is real despite her adaptation to appear on the same social level as a Paris Hilton just because she's adopted her look and attributes.

A man has to see through all of this to know the truth of a woman.

Once again, so many guys get caught up with what they see in front of them which is VERY real. In fact, it IS the behavioral reality in which they live in.

They see her body, her clothes and worse, her behavior which reinforces that she really is this social 'prize' that is above men (who behave like them).

What they don't know is that there is a natural reality; a natural relational dynamic. This is the secret to seduction and success with women yet it is repressed in our behavioral reality.

The natural's know something the majority of first world men don't. They know more of what a woman's true natural character is. They know that it is within all women and that her behavior changes when she's in that state.

He knows that he is the one who can bring it out of (all of) these women. That alone is tremendous power and value because it triggers the physiological and emotional reaction within women that leads to the reality of sex itself.

A natural communicates differently than other men. He's comfortable in his own skin next to beauty and power. He's powerful himself because he doesn't give up his power for anyone.

He see's and operates in a completely different reality with women than do the men who aren't succeeding with women. It's not about looks, money or status even. Why? Because it's less about the man and more about the woman and her attraction when she's around him.

It's the emotional state she is in while in the natural relational dynamic of sexual communication.

The few men in the first world who have the ability to see the nature of women enjoy a good share of success with women.

They are the wanted men because of how they make women feel.

A natural can see through the social and personal behavioral reality and adaptation of these women. He can see through all of her behavior to her repressed natural character.

He knows the path to sex itself and goes down that road because women want to as well..he just knew the secret and it involves a tremendous amount of respect (not on the inner or social levels but on the natural/spiritual levels) for her.

So if you're ready to see beyond the limited and ineffective behavioral reality of female social and inner power to her true sexuality, I encourage you to seek more information.

By: Rion Williams

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How To Keep Your Man From Cheating

To understand how to keep your man from cheating, you have to have at least a basic understanding of what caused him to ask you out in the first place. There was something about you that intrigued or attracted him. It could have been the way you looked, the way you acted, some fascinating quirk in your personality, etc...

On top of that, you were on your best behavior. You got dressed up, dabbed on some perfume, and took extra time with your makeup. Now that you are in a relationship do you still do that or does he see you more often in your sweats with no makeup?

In the beginning you undoubtably paid attention to what he had to say. You paid attention to his needs. Do you still do that or are you more interested in getting in the last word or proving to him that you are right?

At the start of your relationship you probably complimented him and bragged about him to your friends. Do you still do that or is he more likely to come home to nagging and complaints?

And of course, in the beginning, you probably couldn't keep your hands off each other. Perhaps you were more adventurous? Were up for almost anything, as long as it made you both feel good. Are you still like that or do you have "Get Lucky Thursdays" set up in advance. Are you spontaneous or have you developed a "routine."

Why do men cheat? Because the adventure and excitement are gone or he feels unappreciated. Why would he want someone who nags him, doesn't listen to a word he says, and with whom he has to schedule play time? No, it is much easier to find someone new who will, at least for the first month, think the world of him.

If you want to keep your man around and keep your relationship exciting do the following:

1) Dress up like you used to and actually pay attention to keeping your body in shape.
2) Pay attention to his interests. Be genuinely interested in what he has to say.
3) Develop activities that you can do together that you are both interested in.
4) Get off your weekly "schedule" and actually make room for at least some play time every day. This could just be some fun groping on the couch or even a tickling session that turns into more.
5)You can share with your man but he doesn't need to know about every pimple, boil or bunion you have picked up since dating him.
6) Keep the bathroom door closed. There is such a thing as too much intimacy. Leave some mystery in your relationship for goodness' sake!
7) Schedule actual dates with him at least once a week. Even a simple dinner and a movie would be a great start.

By: seductiondiva

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How To Act On A First Date - Advice For Men

There are tons of free dating sites and free advice from people who offer first date tips and online dating information, but very few that address the issue of how to act on a first date.

Contrary to what you may have read on this topic, you must educate yourself from reputable experts in this field who can document their success.

Women Are More Intuitive Than Men

They can tell from their female intuition whether or not you're not in control of your emotions, if you're nervous, or you're not comfortable in your own skin. When you're on a first date, she's probably nervous too because she feels your emotions. I call it "woman radar" and its unavoidable.

Be Fun, And Allow Yourself To Have No Expectations On Your First Date

Women want a man who can lead, be calm and make her laugh. If you can act this natural without being needy and "leaning in" too much, both of you will feel at ease with each other and enjoy the first date better.

Wing The Experience, but set a time limit for yourself

Go to a coffee shop, go shopping in a local mall. This will allow both of you to escape and flee if the chemistry isn't there. Be positive. Flirt. End the date unexpectedly but in a friendly way. In other words, don't allow the first date to continue more than an hour and a half. Why?

This first date tip will set the tone for you, and she will see a man who is busy, you have things to do. Just make sure that you do this in a friendly way, smile, and tell HER to call YOU! You'll leave her wanting more.

Avoid The Boring Topics, Places And Conversations and never complain.

Dinner and a movie? No. I tell all my clients never to make a date like that until after the 4th date as a nonnegotiable dating rule. Why? Ever tried talking during a movie or getting to know someone when you can't hear them talk?

Find somewhere unique and in a public setting. If you think she's the type to appreciate expensive dinners and fancy restaurants, take her to the mall food court. Seriously. This is probably the last place that she would expect you to take her, because if she's a woman of exceptional beauty, you're probably the only man who didn't give into her demands! She'll welcome the change, and will appreciate your confidence. Get it?

Keep Your Manners, Be Cool And Lean Back

Lastly as one of the most prickles first date tips you'll ever hear- lean back. Whatever happens- happens. If you ever observe other men, they are leaning towards the women. This is great to do after you have spent more than an hour getting to know her, but leaning in to early or to often will telegraph to much interest, and it will make her feel uncomfortable.

If you practice these tips to mentally improve yourself, you will find this changes lots of your choices, and your dates will go a lot smoother and the whole dating experience will be more enjoyable for the both of you.

By: Grant Freeman

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